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Flirtfox's Founder, Dr. Jess Carbino, has been called by The NY Post "the Dr. Ruth of the swipe
right generation" and by the Host of This American Life "the Nate Silver of online dating."


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Dr. Jess explains the latest craze — Solomoons have become a pragmatic choice for some couples who don't want to compromise on their post-wedding travel plans.

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